Singer or Pianist for your Wedding?

From rustic barns in Hertfordshire to elegant manor houses in Kent, Essex, and Northamptonshire, I’ve had the joy of performing at beautiful wedding venues across the southeast. If you’re getting married at one of these locations, there’s a good chance I already know the layout and how to get the best from the space.

Hertfordshire

• Brocket Hall - Welwyn Garden City

• Coltsfoot Country Retreat – Datchworth

• Fanhams Hall - Ware

• Hunton Park Hotel – Kings Langley  (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Milling Barn – Buntingford

• Tewin Bury Farm Hotel – Welwyn (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Tewin Country Weddings – Welwyn

Northamptonshire

• Home Farm Events – Daventry

• The Granary at Fawsley – Daventry (★ Recommended Supplier)

Kent

• Chilston Park Hotel – Maidstone

• The Secret Garden – Hythe

Essex

• The Reid Rooms – Dunmow

Bedfordshire

• Eversholt Hall – Milton Keynes

Warwickshire

• Rugby School Enterprises – Rugby

Planning your wedding music should feel exciting and easy!
Here are some popular guides couples often find helpful:

• How Many Songs Do You Need for Your Wedding Ceremony?

• Wedding Ceremony Song Ideas

• How Many Songs Do You Need for Your Wedding (Full Day)?

Feel free to dive into any guide — and if you have any questions, just reach out. I'm always happy to help you plan the perfect soundtrack for your day!

Planning your wedding music should be just as exciting as planning the rest of your day! To help make things easier, I’ve put together a list of frequently asked questions about my services. If you don’t find what you’re looking for, feel free to reach out – I’m always happy to chat.

What makes your performances different from other wedding musicians?

I perform using live looping, meaning I layer guitar, percussion, vocals, and harmonies in real-time – creating the sound of a full band, live. It’s exciting to watch, always unique, and gives your wedding music a rich, dynamic feel without overwhelming the moment. 

Can we request specific songs for the setlist?

Absolutely! I typically learn 2–3 special songs for each couple, especially for important moments like the ceremony or first dance. I also ask if there are any songs you don’t want played, to ensure everything fits perfectly. I use my experience to shape the rest of the setlist, adjusting it throughout the day to keep the vibe just right for your guests.

Do you take requests during the event?

I don’t take song requests during the event. I’ve honed my craft over years of performing, and I know what works best to create the right atmosphere for each part of the day. I’ll tailor the setlist beforehand, and make sure it flows perfectly. However, for key moments like first dances or father-daughter dances, I’m happy to play your personal song choice.

How long will it take to set up?

Setup typically takes about 30 to 60 minutes, but I like to arrive 90 minutes early to make sure everything is perfect. This gives me time to set up the sound, check levels, and ensure everything’s running smoothly without rushing, so you can enjoy a stress-free day.

How long are your sets?

My standard performance includes 2 x 45-minute sets, with a 15-minute break in between. However, I’m happy to play for up to 90 minutes straight if preferred – whichever works best for your timeline.

Do you play music between your sets?

Yes – I provide a curated playlist to keep the atmosphere going while I take a short break. If you have a specific playlist you love, I’m happy to use that too. 

What if my wedding venue has sound restrictions?

I use a Bose portable speaker for my performances, which allows me to adjust the volume as needed. This is one of the advantages of my setup, as I can work within the venue’s sound limits and still deliver great sound. I’m always happy to work with your venue to ensure everything meets their guidelines.

Do you use strobe lighting?

I keep lighting to a minimum, as I believe minimal lighting works better for the style of music I play. Unlike a DJ setup, I prefer to focus on the music itself, creating a more intimate and relaxed atmosphere that suits the vibe of your day.

How far do you travel?

I’m based in Hertfordshire and regularly perform across the surrounding counties and beyond. I’m happy to travel nationwide as long as travel expenses are covered, with additional costs applying for bookings over 100 miles from Hertfordshire.

Can we see you play or watch a video before we book you?

Yes, absolutely! I regularly perform at public events across the Home Counties (listed on my event page). You can also watch videos of my live performances on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@tomwackettmusic or get a behind-the-scenes look on my Instagram www.instagram.com/tomwackettmusic.

How do we book you?

It’s nice and simple:

1. Fill out my enquiry form to check if I’m free for your date.

2. We’ll have a quick chat (by phone) to talk through your plans and make sure we're the right fit.

3. Secure your date with a 10% deposit. The balance is due one week before your wedding.

After that, I’ll guide you through song choices and planning the music as your big day approaches!

What happens once we book you?

Once your date is secured, I’ll guide you through choosing the perfect songs for your day — from the ceremony to the final singalong. Around four weeks before the wedding, I’ll check in to confirm all the details, including timings and logistics. On the day itself, I’ll arrive early, set up quietly, and handle everything music-related so you can relax and enjoy every moment. 

Do you have insurance and PAT-tested equipment?

Yes – I’m fully insured with public liability cover, and all my gear is PAT-tested. I can send the paperwork to your venue if needed. 

Don’t see your question here?

Just drop me an e-mail (contact@tomwackett.co.uk) — I’m always happy to chat and help however I can.