From rustic barns in Hertfordshire to elegant manor houses in Kent, Essex, and Northamptonshire, I’ve had the joy of performing at beautiful wedding venues across the southeast. If you’re getting married at one of these locations, there’s a good chance I already know the layout and how to get the best from the space.

Hertfordshire

• Coltsfoot Country Retreat – Datchworth

• Fanhams Hall - Ware

• Hunton Park Hotel – Kings Langley  (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Milling Barn – Buntingford

• Tewin Bury Farm Hotel – Welwyn (★ Recommended Supplier)

• Tewin Country Weddings – Welwyn

Northamptonshire

• Home Farm Events – Daventry

• The Granary at Fawsley – Daventry (★ Recommended Supplier)

Kent

• Chilston Park Hotel – Maidstone

• The Secret Garden – Hythe

Essex

• The Reid Rooms – Dunmow

Bedfordshire

• Eversholt Hall – Milton Keynes

Warwickshire

• Rugby School Enterprises – Rugby

Planning your wedding music should be just as exciting as planning the rest of your day! To help make things easier, I’ve put together a list of frequently asked questions about my services. If you don’t find what you’re looking for, feel free to reach out – I’m always happy to chat.

Can we request specific songs for the setlist?

Absolutely! I typically learn 2–3 special songs for each couple, especially for important moments like the ceremony or first dance. I also ask if there are any songs you don’t want played, to ensure everything fits perfectly. I use my experience to shape the rest of the setlist, adjusting it throughout the day to keep the vibe just right for your guests.

Do you take requests during the event?

I don’t take song requests during the event. I’ve honed my craft over years of performing, and I know what works best to create the right atmosphere for each part of the day. I’ll tailor the setlist beforehand, and make sure it flows perfectly. However, for key moments like first dances or father-daughter dances, I’m happy to play your personal song choice.

How long will it take to set up?

Setup typically takes about 30 to 60 minutes, but I like to arrive 90 minutes early to make sure everything is perfect. This gives me time to set up the sound, check levels, and ensure everything’s running smoothly without rushing, so you can enjoy a stress-free day.

How long are your sets?

My standard performance includes 2 x 45-minute sets, with a 15-minute break in between. However, I’m happy to play for up to 90 minutes straight if preferred – whichever works best for your timeline.

What if my wedding venue has sound restrictions?

I use a Bose portable speaker for my performances, which allows me to adjust the volume as needed. This is one of the advantages of my setup, as I can work within the venue’s sound limits and still deliver great sound. I’m always happy to work with your venue to ensure everything meets their guidelines.

Do you use strobe lighting?

I keep lighting to a minimum, as I believe minimal lighting works better for the style of music I play. Unlike a DJ setup, I prefer to focus on the music itself, creating a more intimate and relaxed atmosphere that suits the vibe of your day.

How far do you travel?

I’m based in Hertfordshire and regularly perform across the surrounding counties and beyond. I’m happy to travel nationwide as long as travel expenses are covered, with additional costs applying for bookings over 100 miles from Hertfordshire.

Can we see you play or watch a video before we book you?

Yes, absolutely! I regularly perform at public events across the Home Counties (listed on my event page). You can also watch videos of my live performances on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@tomwackettmusic or get a behind-the-scenes look on my Instagram www.instagram.com/tomwackettmusic.